How Many Ways Can I Fritter Away the Day?

    1. Stare at a blank screen and NOT write because I think everything I write has to be perfect, groundbreaking or insightful.
    2. Get a drink of water.
    3. Do a load of laundry.
    4. Open the refrigerator.
    5. Close the refrigerator.
    6. Google my name.
    7. Google someone else’s name.
    8. Watch a YouTube Video.
    9. Make a cup of tea.
    10. Make a new to-do list.
    11. Spend too much time on Twitter.
    12. Get tired of Twitter and head over to Facebook.
    13. Text message a few friends.
    14. Organize my email inbox.
    15. Vacuum the carpet in my office.
    16. Watch a Hulu “sick day collection” episode.
    17. Cook lunch and linger too long at the kitchen table chatting with my husband.
    18. Peruse the iTunes store.
    19. Read too many blogs.
    20. Make a pot of coffee.
    21. Pop a pot of popcorn.
    22. Balance my checkbook.
    23. Stare at a blank screen and NOT write because I think I have nothing to say worth reading.
    24. Open the refrigerator again to see if anything new has magically appeared.
    25. Feel disappointed.
    26. Close the refrigerator again.
    27. Add some things to my to-do list that I’ve already done so I can cross them off.
    28. Go to the post office.
    29. Stop at the store.
    30. Rearrange my bookshelf.
    31. Take a reading break – one that lasts four hours.
    32. Stare at my vision board.
    33. Skype a friend.
    34. Rearrange the icons on my desktop.
    35. Shred some junk mail.
    36. Get a glass of water.
    37. Wash the dishes.
    38. While I am in the kitchen get a snack.
    39. Check the thermostat.
    40. Adjust the temperature.
    41. Open the front door and stare at all the snow.
    42. Throw some old bread and crackers out for the birds.
    43. Watch a Murder She Wrote episode on DVD.
    44. Make another cup of tea.
    45. Make some notes.
    46. Peruse Amazon.com.
    47. Check to see if my Kindle needs to be charged.
    48. Shuffle my journals and piles of notes.
    49. Clean my glasses.
    50. Stare out the window.
    51. Check my email.
    52. Send some Tweets.
    53. Read a few more blogs.

And, then before I realize it the day is over.

After a few days like this I begin to panic.

But, then something magical happens.

I feel refreshed. Invigorated. Creative. Excited.

I love to write again.

I don’t care if every word is perfect, groundbreaking or insightful. I have things to say and I think they are important. I think people may just like what I write.

The words don’t always flow easily and sometimes I still stare at a blank screen, but it now represents opportunity, not failure.

Then writing leads to other fun things, like outlining a new workshop, hacking some code, solving a problem or creating a new art journal piece or a short video.

Yes, sometimes I fritter away the day, but I am coming to realize that frittering away my day sometimes is the best way to feel creative and motivated again.

So, next time I feel a little antsy I am going to give myself a break and fritter away.

10 Responses to How Many Ways Can I Fritter Away the Day?
  1. Dovelily
    March 4, 2010 | 4:17 pm

    Great post, Sandy! I’ve frittered away many a day and beat myself up for it. Nice to know I’m in fine company with my frittering habits. :-) I’ve practiced #27 on many, many occasions!

  2. Sandy
    February 18, 2010 | 9:59 am

    Thanks, Cris. It’s quite liberating to realize the creative freedom of frittering away the day. By, the way I love the word ‘delightful’.
    Sandy

  3. Sandy
    February 18, 2010 | 9:57 am

    # 27 seems to be a popular one. thanks Denise, Toni and Michele!!

  4. Sandy
    February 18, 2010 | 9:56 am

    I know exactly what you mean, Deb. If I took a day off during the week, I’d end up frittering away the day and before I knew it I had to go back to work. So, instead I started scheduling little 3 and 4 day mini sabbaticals, combining a Friday and Monday, or Monday and Tuesday with the weekend. The extra days gave me time to fritter away, recharge and then be energized enough to work on the projects that would help me move away from my day job.
    Hang in there.
    Sandy

  5. Deb
    February 18, 2010 | 9:49 am

    I love this post; BUT – this is my biggest fear about leaving my corporate job. I will sometimes take a day off to focus on progressing my businesses and next thing you know the day has gone. I have learned the art of frittering the day away and now I need to learn how to use that to recharge and refocus my efforts!

  6. Denise
    February 18, 2010 | 2:45 am

    Just gotta Love #27! Helps you to remember that you did indeed accomplish something; it wasn’t wasted time at all. Besides, it makes you feel GOOD!! (often times that very act jolts me right back into getting back to the business of the day)

  7. Barbara Winter
    February 17, 2010 | 11:40 pm

    Hmmm….why do so many of the items on your list sound strangely familiar?

  8. Cris Buckley
    February 17, 2010 | 11:33 pm

    Ha! I did that yesterday….my big things to do were to decide on a subject for an upcoming speech and decide on the main points of a presentation I’m giving soon after. Did lots of other stuff….the frittering….and made a feeble attempt at the speech subject….but nada. zero. zilch.

    Went to bed feeling like a slug.

    This morning, the ideas were rolling. Got the speech subject AND practically the whole speech! Then ideas for the presentation, and a full outline for ANOTHER presentation I don’t even have to worry about yet! I was writing like mad to keep up! Woo-hoo!

    I didn’t know that “frittering is most definitely a part of the creative process.” What a delightful concept!

    Thanks for the post, Sandy. Keep ‘em coming!

  9. Toni
    February 17, 2010 | 9:23 pm

    I do a little Fritting every day – and it HELPS tremendously!! For the record, I thought I was the only one that did number 27 … I am glad to see that I am not along.

  10. Michele
    February 17, 2010 | 7:32 am

    Frittering is most definitely a part of the creative process. I do it myself before I have a burst of creating. I’m sure that everyone else fritters too. I love number 27on your list! I’ve never thought of doing that. Now I’ll have a new tradition for frittering days.

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